Mind you own business! and Start it from today
Its the Halloween day of year 2011.
So I thought of talking about another common haunting issue that we all face - “Poked By Nosy Noses”.
Sub Topic today is about “Retaining the eternal smile” on your face no matter what goes wrong. And I wonder if that is really a humanly possible task unless you have some permanent wrinkle that makes you look as if you are smiling?
(Yeah, for the men who are reading this, if you want the type of wrinkle I’m taking about go to a drunk barber and get him to shave your beard , ladies, I'm sorry, I’m yet to discover how you could get one )
Mondays are usually the days that bring “Monday blues” (well for some it hits through out the week, they call it “weekly blues” ) to an average person. I am very much average and was feeling the same at lunch table where I was quietly having lunch. (isn’t that what you are supposed to do during lunch anyway) and it was a “nuclear power plant leakage issue” to this certain person that why I was NOT noisy or loud.
How could you be so silent? Why are you not talking? What are you thinking? Why are you thinking? Blah blah blah… Well , just for record purpose I was repeating “im ok, Im Ok, IM OK”. Am I to call it annoying, irritating or thank the country law that it was illegal to carry a pistol. Otherwise I’d be writing this wearing a white Jumper @ a non a/c room in “Hotel De Welikada”
I guess its all about how much people forget “where to stop” when it comes to nose poking, interfering or trying to show a made up empathy or may be to start a conversation for no reason.
Guys, morale of the story is that when somebody says “its ok” Its probably not because everything is ok. May be Its just that the person needs some personal space to think over it. And does NOT require you nosiness (some apparently call it SUPPORT) at that moment.
So the best you could do is to just shut the flower up and give them some time. If the person needs your support he/she surely would approach you. and most importantly Give your nose a break.
Happy Halloween!!
Cheers
PramoD

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